Keep Those Kids Busy This Summer

June 19th, 2013 by sandrascai
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Schools out for Summer, camp doesn’t start for another week or so and you’ve got to keep the kids entertained. We’ve found some great ideas online for creative play, creative crafts, and fun that even the ones too little for camp can participate in throughout the Summer.

101 Summer Activities for Kids by 7 on a Shoestring – If you do one of these ideas a day, you wouldn’t finish by Summer’s end.  Some are simple such as “Have a picnic” others are more complex like, “Make a cardboard city”. You’ll find lots of fun and time well spent together with this list.

50 Outdoor Summer Activities for Kids by Six Sisters Stuff – Clever ideas for kids of all ages. I am totally having my kids paint on an old sheet (I was actually just wondering what I was going to do with one I am retiring) and love the water balloon pinata.

100 Things To Do With Kids This Summer by Six Sisters – Whew, these sisters are busy Moms keeping their kids occupied.  This list has both indoor and outdoor ideas so we had to reference it.  Please tell us and send pics if you make the “Indoor Campfire and Smores”.  It is too cute.

Have fun with the kiddies out in the yard and inside on those rainy Summer days.  We would love to hear and see what you are doing.  You can always share with us on our Facebook page.

 

Beach Reads

June 12th, 2013 by sandrascai
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Beach season has begun.  Time for planting your chair in the hot sand, dipping your toes in the water, and diving into a good book.  Our picks for Summer reads encapsulate the power of love, the allure of artist’s lives on the Italian coast, the healing power of adventure alone, and unique storytelling through mother-daughter bonds.  There is nothing quite like being whisked away by a great story.  It’s a true vacation even if you are just sunning in your own backyard.

 

This Is How You Lose Her by Junot Diaz -  From the author of The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, Junot Díaz turns his remarkable talent to the haunting, impossible power of love – obsessive love, illicit love, fading love, maternal love. On a beach in the Dominican Republic, a doomed relationship flounders. In the heat of a hospital laundry room in New Jersey, a woman does her lover’s washing and thinks about his wife. In Boston, a man buys his love child, his only son, a first baseball bat and glove. At the heart of these stories is the irrepressible, irresistible Yunior, a young hardhead whose longing for love is equaled only by his recklessness–and by the extraordinary women he loves and loses. In prose that is endlessly energetic, inventive, tender, and funny, the stories lay bare the infinite longing and inevitable weakness of the human heart. They remind us that passion always triumphs over experience, and that “the half-life of love is forever.” – Amazon Book Description

Beautiful Ruins by Jess Walker – The acclaimed, award-winning author of the national bestseller The Financial Lives of the Poets returns with his funniest, most romantic, and most purely enjoyable novel yet. Hailed by critics and loved by readers of literary and historical fiction, Beautiful Ruins is the story of an almost-love affair that begins on the Italian coast in 1962…and is rekindled in Hollywood fifty years later. – Amazon Book Description

Wild by Cheryl Strayed – At twenty-two, Cheryl Strayed thought she had lost everything. In the wake of her mother’s death, her family scattered and her own marriage was soon destroyed. Four years later, with nothing more to lose, she made the most impulsive decision of her life. With no experience or training, driven only by blind will, she would hike more than a thousand miles of the Pacific Crest Trail from the Mojave Desert through California and Oregon to Washington State—and she would do it alone. Told with suspense and style, sparkling with warmth and humor, Wild powerfully captures the terrors and pleasures of one young woman forging ahead against all odds on a journey that maddened, strengthened, and ultimately healed her. – Amazon Book Description

Where’d You Go, Bernadette? by Maria Semple – Bernadette Fox is notorious. To her Microsoft-guru husband, she’s a fearlessly opinionated partner; to fellow private-school mothers in Seattle, she’s a disgrace; to design mavens, she’s a revolutionary architect, and to 15-year-old Bee, she is a best friend and, simply, Mom.  Then Bernadette disappears. It began when Bee aced her report card and claimed her promised reward: a family trip to Antarctica. But Bernadette’s intensifying allergy to Seattle–and people in general–has made her so agoraphobic that a virtual assistant in India now runs her most basic errands. A trip to the end of the earth is problematic.  To find her mother, Bee compiles email messages, official documents, secret correspondence–creating a compulsively readable and touching novel about misplaced genius and a mother and daughter’s role in an absurd world. – Amazon Book Description

 

 

 

Mmm… Donuts!

June 5th, 2013 by sandrascai
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There is a day to celebrate every food imaginable.  From “National Zucchini Day” to “Grilled Cheese Sandwich Day” to “Something On A Stick Day” (this one could be anything, right?) pretty much every single day of the year is designated to celebrate some type of food.  Most of them I pay no attention to, but National Donut Day is one I’m making time to enjoy.

Amazing fried dough shops fill the land.  Here’s a great round up of donut shops coast to coast.  I happen to live 4 blocks away from one of the best, Peter Pan Donut Shop in Brooklyn.  Peter Pan sells old school donuts, has only a counter to dine-in, and counts Tina Fey as one of it’s faithful followers.  I’m also a huge fan of the Apple Cider Donuts from Delicious Orchards in New Jersey.  The donuts are soft, not too sweet, and addictive.  My husband and I bought 15 bags the last time we were there.  We bring them to family as gifts and pop them in the freezer at home.  The check-out girl was in awe of our purchase, it was a total New Yorker shopping moment.  They ship them too.

I love though, how donuts have now become an ingredient resulting in other decadent indulgences.  As in the photo above, Donut Ice Cream Sandwiches, what an over the top Summer treat.  There is also the “Gronut”, a grilled cheese donut – lunch and dessert at the same time.  And as a sophisticated dessert at your next bbq why not try Grilled Donuts with Mint Julep and Strawberry Basil dip?  I am seriously going to serve these at my July 4th party!

There is so much to love about donuts from their nostalgia to their whimsy (VooDoo Doll donut anyone?).  I have yet to meet anyone who doesn’t love biting into a fresh, still warm, donut confection.  So, I’ll be taking the kids and the hubs out for donuts this Friday.  Hope you indulge as well.

Thoughts On Motherhood: Siblings

May 29th, 2013 by sandrascai

The internet is a buzz this week with sharing the NY Times article, The Gift of Siblings.  In it, author Frank Bruni – who you may recall was the colorful NY Times restaurant critic for a number of years – analyzes his loving relationship with his siblings and references some interesting  writers on the subject of sibling relationships.

It is true that the sibling relationship is unlike any other.  For the wealth of shared memories and experiences, happy and sad, that come from knowing someone your whole life and growing up with another person(s) can not be matched.   I often think about this, there are some memories from growing up that only my sister and brother share with me – not my parents, not my friends. These experiences uniquely bond us. Our relationships as we get older though are really how we choose them to be.  Your sibling may not be someone you’d befriend if you met them any other way, but you can love them and enjoy them for who they are because of the special sibling bond.

As parents, the idea siblings are something that you have to give some thought to.  Bruni doesn’t touch on this area and mostly focuses on the benefits of “the sibling clan”, having four children in his family.  Deciding to have more than one child is one of those deeply personal issues that couples have to answer for themselves and one to which there is no right or wrong answer.  From my own experience, I wanted to re-create some of my own childhood with my own family and have more than one child.  I love seeing my little ones play together and give kisses goodnight to each other.  My son is already protective of his younger sister, not letting other kids take her scooter at the park and often asking that she join us on our outings (of course, she’s coming with us!).  Their relationship is already solid and can continue to blossom as our family experiences more together.  It is one the thing I hoped for with my family, these kids are there for one another already.  Ultimately, that is what the concept of siblings comes down to, you are not alone.

 

Let’s Go On A Picnic Mommy!

May 22nd, 2013 by sandrascai
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images via Sewn Natural, Hawk and Hannah, Crate and Barrel, Lorina 3rd Ward,

“Mommy, I want to go on a picnic” said my 3 year old son. “What a delightful idea,” I replied. Memorial Day, the official Summer opener, is usually a picnic day for us – my son has just been too young to remember them all. We love getting out to the park, spreading the blankets, and here in NYC, watching all the people. Find a lovely spot near you, be it park, riverbank, or backyard and enjoy the company of family and friends this weekend.  Here is some picnic inspiration to get you excited.

  • Loving this classic gingham picnic blanket.  It’s got 3 quilted layers, is dew resistant, and super comfy on uneven ground.
  • Do not let the pests ruin your lovely spread.  Take this collapsible food tent along to pop over bowls or plates.  Did we mention it is collapsible? Yes, to space saving while on the go!
  • Keep your little explorers occupied, away from the picnic blanket, with this adorable Bug Jar set up.  Kids will be entertained collecting insects with the net and observing them with the magnifying glass.  My kids would use the magnifying glass on everything!
  • In keeping with our beverage theme from last week’s post, including the best lemonade out there.  It’s not too tart, not too sweet, and has just the right amount of fizz.  The glass bottle caps securely and is beautiful to use again.  Note:  the blood orange flavor is a nice little splash in prosecco.
  • How are you getting to your picnic spot?  Take a family bike ride to the park with one of the coolest bikes around.  Brooklyn Cruiser makes the ride fun and smart looking to boot.  Add a wooden basket to the front or back and transport your picnic goodies in European style.

Summer Drinking Wines

May 15th, 2013 by sandrascai
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There is nothing like a crisp refreshing glass of sparkling or wine, while sitting outside on a warm afternoon or evening.  I have been indulging and have some picks to add to your warm weather cocktail repertoire.  As I am no wine connoisseur, I just know what I like, I’ll be giving you the ‘down home’ descriptions to my favorites.

At my house, we are big champagne, prosecco, sparkling drinkers.  There is just something about the bubbles that makes it so delicious.  We discovered our favorite “sparkling wine” while on vacation in New Orleans and it is made in New Mexico of all places.  Gruet is perfectly dry and rivals the flavor of champagnes.  Goes to show, as the family winery used to make champagne in France.  Interesting tidbit, the soil in New Mexico and lack of humidity allows for production of the wines without the use of pesticides.  I think we can argue that this is even healthy for you.

This crisp, white wine, Villa Sparina Gavi, has a little fruit tone and is uber drinkable (meaning you can serve it with anything – if you are worried about food pairings).  Most of what we’re eating in the warmer months naturally compliments this type of wine, so please have another glass.  Close your eyes and you can taste the breeze coming off of the sea and the warm sun that shines on the vineyard.

Turning you onto Yummly, it is the Pinterest of food and recipes.  We did a quick search for Summer wine drinks and turned up a ton of refreshing, iced, Summer concoctions.  You will find recipes for Sangria that utilize your favorite fruits (local or exotic) and will inspire you to use that bottle of wine left over from your last dinner party.  Red or white, you can not go wrong with the inspiration found on these pages.

Loved putting this post together!  Maybe I’ll have to turn this into a Summer beverage series – cocktails, beers, etc.  Hmmm.  I’m meeting a girlfriend out tonight.  Will have to start on some research.  Tell us your Summertime favorites on our Facebook page.

 

 

 

 

 

Thoughts on Motherhood: A Mother’s Day For Me

May 8th, 2013 by sandrascai

Growing up, what you did for Mother’s Day was a no-brainer, you spent it with your mother.  Whether it was going out for brunch or just a bbq in the backyard at home, Mom got her cards and gifts in the morning and you spent the day together.  You got a bit older and the formula still remained, some type of visit and time spent with Mom.

Things begin to change once you get married.  Now there are two Moms to honor and if they both live relatively close, you must start choosing who you are celebrating with.  Yes, it’s possible to get the families on both sides together for the Mother’s Day meal, but that didn’t really happen for us.  We did the every other year thing.  And have been let off the hook somewhat, with one side of the family moving to Florida.

Now we are mother’s too.  What do we do?  This may not be an issue for some families, they just get up and get everyone together.  Here comes the selfish part…  When do you get your own Mother’s Day, spent in your own home, with your own little family?  I still want to honor my mother, just on Saturday instead of Sunday.  I would like a Mother’s Day spent picnicking in the park instead of sitting in traffic.  Traveling for every holiday is a drag when some of the joys of the holiday are memories made at home.  So I’ve done it.  I have altered the calendar.  Mother’s Day Saturday is the day to celebrate my Mom and Mother’s Day Sunday is the day to celebrate myself as a mother, and by proxy giving this gift to my brother & sister-in-law as well.  I don’t feel bad about it.  I know it’s important to spend time with my Mom and we genuinely make time all throughout the year.  There just comes a time when the torch is passed.  I will understand for my kids too.

Now if we could just get to spend Christmas at our house.  All would be right with our holiday world!

What do you do for Mother’s Day?  Do you get the generations together or celebrate with your little family unit?

Share your holiday with us on our Facebook page.

Creative Food Pics

May 1st, 2013 by sandrascai
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Cherry Tomatoes, Nori, Soy Sauce   image via Oh I See Red
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We’ve all been subjected to friends posting pics of their food on social media.  “Yes, that is the most delicious mocha I have ever seen.”  and “So you cooked a meal at home for once.” run through our minds as comments.  I can’t even crack wise too hard as I posted a pic of my homemade Green Smoothie the other day…  While most food photos posted are artful chef creations, these food photos are artful, artist creations.

The artist/architect who goes by ‘Red’, aka Hong Yi, challenged herself to a month long project – create with food and post it to Instagram.  The resulting artworks are clever, creative, and all edible.  Her creations are hyper-clean, delicate, and crisp lined, which I am sure is no easy feat when working with soy sauce.  Check out her blog for more dishes and her interpretations of works by famed artists such as Edward Munch and Andy Warhol.

It’s amazing to have the discipline and talent to commit to a month long challenge such as this.  Good for you Red to follow through and share your creativity with the world.  We’re just working on drinking smoothies everyday for a month.  After day one, I vowed not to bore everyone with photos everyday.

Earth Week

April 24th, 2013 by sandrascai
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Earth Day, the celebration now spans a whole week. We love the idea of honoring all things natural and doing family activities that bring us back to the natural world.

We’ve gathered a few Earth Week inspired pickins’ from the web for you to enjoy:

A. Blueberries:  plant a bush in your yard from these heirloom seeds and enjoy a bevy of blueberries with your baby come Summertime.  Flower, herb, and fruit & vegetable seeds all available and non-GMO/non-chemical from the SeedsShop image via SeedsShop

B.  Free Week at National Parks:  From April 22 – April 26 all National Parks have free admission!  Time to get out into the Spring air and enjoy a family walk amongst the trees or rock formations, depending on what park you are at.  Locate a park near you with the National Park Services Find-A-Park search.      image via Red Tricycle/toddwendy flikr

C.  Seed Bead Carabiners:  Whether in your own yard or that empty lot that needs some love, just toss a seed ball and watch as the “green revolution blossoms”.  Available at Brooklyn Industries stores.    image via Brooklyn Industries

D.  Dolphin Sculpture in Plastic:  A dolphin sculpture on the streets of Vancouver had an unexpected add-on – a gigantic six-pack plastic ring ensnaring the dolphins.  Done as a subversive stunt by a non-profit, it acts as a reminder to the dangers of ocean litter and that we all need to honor the oceans and its creatures on a daily basis.  A great family activity is joining a local beach clean-up this season.  Action helps your little ones feel more ownership!  image via Oceana.org

 

Welcome to your new ‘Me-Ality’

April 17th, 2013 by sandrascai
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image via Glamour.com

As a devoted jeans wearer, I am forever on the hunt each season for the perfect fitting pair.  I do have my brand loyalties and return to those designers for much of the same.  But to be introduced to a new, perfect fitting jean without having to painstakingly try on multiple pairs, I am ready for it.  The day is here, at a Bloomingdales near you.

Check out Me-Ality, a “digital sizing station” recently installed in five Bloomingdale’s locations: the 59th Street flagship in Manhattan, Roosevelt Field Mall (N.Y.), Chevy Chase (Md.), Santa Monica Place (Calif.) and South Coast Plaza (Calif.).  Much like an airport body scanner, you simply step into the machine sans shoes and leather items i.e. belts, and position your arms.  The machine fully scans you and delivers a print out with a bar code that you can scan in-department for your brand recommendations.  The machines in Bloomingdales will only recommend in stock product, which is great or a bust.  If there is nothing in your size in stock, you get a “come back another time” print out.

I’ve returned enough colored, skinny jeans for not fitting right this season already.  Bloomingdales here I come.